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Should I Date My Separated, Long-Distance Ex-Flame?
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Should I Date My Separated, Long-Distance Ex-Flame?

How many red flags does it take to run away?
He’s cute but, boy, are things complicated.

On this coaching call with Suzi, we discuss her dilemma of reconnecting with an old flame - who is separated, but not divorced. You’ll discover:

  • The complexities of dating a separated man.

  • The importance of assessing long-term compatibility early.

  • Why you MUST pay attention to a man's expressed intentions.

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This Week's Love U Story

When I first hired Evan, I was coming off of a horrible relationship with a selfish man who never made me feel safe. Evan challenged me – not to change myself – but to change my choice of men. He didn’t always tell me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to hear. He was honest with me even when I didn’t like it.

He held a mirror to my face, so I could see how I was sabotaging myself. No one enjoys that, but it’s important if you really want to make a change and find true love. In just a few months, I learned so many things:

  • Actions speak louder than words.

  • It’s not always as personal as we make it out to be.

  • The right guy does the right thing!

  • There is a difference between what you want and what you need.

  • I don’t want to run a marathon in heels.

I wish I had understood these things earlier, but life being what it is, I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be. I’m in love, married and now have a family. I couldn’t be happier. I really wanted Evan to officiate our wedding, that said it was very important to my husband that we have a Rabbi. And, as I learned from Love U, compromise is important.

But honestly, if it weren’t for Evan, I don’t know that I would be married. He taught me a great deal and I’ve been spreading his gospel in an attempt to pay it forward. In short, I thank him for everything I have now. I can’t say that enough. Evan and Love U have given me tools I will use for the rest of my life – with my devoted husband…

13,000 women have gone to Love U to gain confidence, understand dating, set healthy boundaries, and attract high-quality, commitment-oriented men.

You can be next.

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